"Very few people ever state properly the strong argument in favour of marrying for love or against marrying for money. The argument is not that all lovers are heroes and heroines, nor is it that all dukes are profligates or all millionaires cads. The argument is this, that the differences between a man and a woman are at the best so obstinate and exasperating that they practically cannot be got over unless there is an atmosphere of exaggerated tenderness and mutual interest.
To put the matter in one metaphor, the sexes are two stubborn pieces of iron; if they are to be welded together, it must be while they are red-hot. Every woman has to find out that her husband is a selfish beast, because every man is a selfish beast by the standard of a woman. But let her find out the beast while they are both still in the story of 'Beauty and the Beast.'
Every man has to find out that his wife is cross—that is to say, sensitive to the point of madness: for every woman is mad by the masculine standard. But let him find out that she is mad while her madness is more worth considering than anyone else's sanity."
G. K. Chesterton, The Common Man, 1950
"The first time he spent an evening at the Bloggs there was no one there. That is to say there was a worn but fiery little lady in a grey dress who didn’t approve of ‘catastrophic solutions of social problems.’ That, he understood, was Mrs. Blogg. But the second time he went there he was plumped down on a sofa beside a being of whom he had a vague impression that brown hair grew at intervals all down her like a caterpillar.
Once in the course of conversation she looked straight at him and he said to himself as plainly as if he had read it in a book: 'If I had anything to do with this girl I should go on my knees to her: if I spoke with her she would never deceive me: if I depended on her she would never deny me: if I loved her she would never play with me: if I trusted her she would never go back on me: if I remembered her she would never forget me.'
There are four lamps of thanksgiving always before him. The first is for his creation out of the same earth with such a woman as you. The second is that he has not, with all his faults, ‘gone after strange women.’ You cannot think how a man’s self restraint is rewarded in this. The third is that he has tried to love everything alive: a dim preparation for loving you. And the fourth is – but no words can express that.
Here ends my previous existence. Take it: it led me to you.”
G. K. Chesterton, Marriage Proposal, Letter to his fiance Frances Blogg, 1899
Stocks had the wobbles today as Iran is trolling the Don and making it clear that an easy deal on Hormuz is no longer within his grasp.
The Dollar chopped around and finished unchanged.
Bitcoin gave up a bit.
Gold and silver were off.
VIX got over some of its jitters from yesterday.
Oil crept up a bit. At some point I suspect it is going to become quite energetic to the upside.
I had to take a trip into New York today to collect the visa for a trip I hope to take at later this year or the next.
The Chinese consulate is very efficient and easy to do business with. And it is in a neighborhood convenient to the Lincoln Tunnel.
Let's see how the geopolitical situation progresses. Yeah we have some economic data like CPI and PPI coming out, but the big story moving the markets is oil and its enterprise wide impact.
Nvidia announced a huge debt sale of $500 billion to raise the money for their vendor financing arrangements.
I don't want to sound snippy but this is 1999 all over again.
Vendor financing can be legit. But it also start looking like a Ponzi scheme.
Have a pleasant evening.























